Tax Discrimination?

Finally completed our taxes...complications that shouldn't be...It seems very unfair that I have to pay someone over a $1,000 to put together my taxes when I should be able to do them myself for less than $90.  If I were a married, straight man...I could have done so...the fact that I am a married, gay man...the IRS has made it very difficult for me to file taxes.  This seems to put my husband and me in a special class once again.  And because we make a little too much, we cannot write off the amount we paid for someone to do our taxes...this is blatant discrimination?  I should not have to be a CPA just to file my taxes...